Trapped in Concepts - Sophisticated Survival games of Personalities
Dear BeiYin, it really can be, that what you always wished to create comes to you now when you have given up.
And it really can be that we are finally finding a place together with others now that we have given up.
We cannot and do not want to convince you that we are not like all the people that you have had bad experiences with.
We are a gift to who ever can see it. We do not talk about a different life - we just live it.
We do not sell ourselves in anyway to earn money. We trust that we are cared for and we are - now since seven years as a family. Whatever we really need comes to us, either in the form of money or directly. Always in amazing different ways, that just happen, without us, making it with our mind power. We do not sell or trade and dedicate our life to live unconditional love on all the levels.
We see this in your web side also, though it is not clear, how, whatever you need comes to you. Do you just trust in being nourished and taken care for by the loving Light, as we do?
Or do you repair palets and sell them? This is not what we can compromise on.
Total clarity and open sharing on all the levels is a basic foundation for being and living together.
We did not read anything about children on your site - we have 3 children and know that children are a main focus.
We do not send them to school to learn the ways of an old society - together with us they live a new world - supported to be, who they already are.
All our decisions are made in a common meditation circle; we do not discuss about anything, nor ponder, nor worry.
We go to our heart and calibrate and expand our reality from there, by the infinite power of the loving universe that we surrender to constantly.
This is a basic for our life, on our way back home, where we never left.
Are you willing to go there? To find out everything together in a meditation - circle?
We can and will not go back to a mundane way of being together!!!
In our life we don't and can't compromise and that takes us to amazing and challenging places, within and without.
We do not agree to live with people, who smoke or drink or in other ways are not willed, to let go any kind of dependencies.
Love is not polite
Love can not be abused
Love is not a victim
Love is power full beyond all measures!
We do not eat anymore cooked food or in any other way kill the life force in what we eat. It was a process from vegetarian to vegan, from vegan to raw-food and we enjoyed it. We know this guides us eventually to be nourished by the Light.
Our children eat also raw and thrive.
Are you willing to go there?
We are not your usual people as we have dedicated to serve the Light on Earth, and to enjoy it. And we have nothing else to do... We know that living community, living a new society, based in sharing is the way for Now, for the new millennium.
We live the NOW-age...
Sharing in common ownership (She/He who cares is the ‘owner’).
We are living a new society, based in unconditional love, enjoying the process/progress to be there, where fear is not given any space any more!
Our insecurities and fears are: Is that just another person talking and not living? That children are not warmly and fully embraced as they are, as the own process and healing has priority? Another somebody, who is not really able and willed yet to surrender to common inner guidance from within...
To keep our life style, which turned out to be the most loving and supportive for all of us...
That we are again just ‘too much’.
It is not, that mind, fears, emotions, do not exist or come up anymore, it is, not to give guidance, power to them this is what we use our meditation and circles for.
We allow them to be expressed, in a non-accusative way and with the help of omnipresent Grace in all of us being transformed into thriving and supportive energy.
We can come and share all our gifts with Joy, Laughter, Humbleness and Power of Love...
Are you willing to go there, where we are, so we can come there where you are.
P.S.: Do you know BeiYin, this is your chance!
BeiYin: Dear K., thank you for your beautiful message in which you express your ideas in such an explicit way.
Yes, you will be welcome at FalconBlanco, although not right now. It will be necessary that first you live your very well conceived concepts with other people in your own set up and at least for the next twenty years. Meanwhile we can stay in contact. Probably after a few years there will show up some doubts about your ideas you are trying to live, then our contact might be helpful, as most of your ideas and practices I have done for more than thirty years, (meditation since fifty years. If you do Sun gazing, you will not need to eat anymore, etc.). So I offer you support when you ask for it.
At the moment your beautiful concepts give you strength and you feel high, there is no doubt that you will be able to convince other people and find followers and participants. It will not be easy, but it will be a beautiful learning experience... You are right: Life is your chance.
We wish you warmth, being loved, company, that loves you and a painless transformation... 20 years can pass very fast...
Let us know, when you really went through them, finally really discovering, that you are worth to be loved, we will be there, when the doors open...
We love you....
Quote: Dear BeiYin, it really can be, that what you always wished to create comes to you now when you have given up.
And it really can be that we are finally finding a place together with others now that we have given up.
The tiny difference is that you have given up after two years of trying to find the 'right' people for your need to live together, while I did the same after living together with people for thirty years.
Quote: We cannot and do not want to convince you that we are not like all the people that you have had bad experiences with.
BeiYin: You have convinced me enough with your writings and indeed I don't need an experience in a close encounter with you. To avoid useless repetitions one has to know one's position and be able to recognize other peoples state of condition. There are no 'bad experiences' just the learning about what is there, what means 'reality', of which human nature is an essential part when dealing with ideas about living in 'community'.
Quote: We are a gift to who ever can see it.
BeiYin: Yes, we are surrounded by 'gifts' and it is an advanced art to be able to select carefully, for this of course one must be able to see, then relate to the person or situation and then respond, what needs a decision coming out of the clear awareness, what includes one's own reactions, etc.
Quote: We do not talk about a different life - we just live it.
BeiYin: You are talking quite a lot about things of which if you would be able to live these, then indeed you wouldn't talk about them.
Quote: We do not sell ourselves in any way to earn money. We trust that we are cared for and we are - now since seven years as a family. Whatever we really need comes to us, either in the form of money or directly. Always in amazing different ways, that just happen, without us making it with our mind power.
BeiYin: Well, that's good. So you have done the first basic step to get out of the consumer habits and conditioning. If you have practiced this for a while, then slowly you might expand this to other levels and then you will be able to be open enough so that people will show up you can except as 'teacher' in your project of 'living together', so that you can learn about yourself.
Quote: We do not sell or trade and dedicate our life to live unconditional love on all the levels.
BeiYin: I would congratulate you to have chosen this high pitched concept to live 'unconditional love on all levels', if I wouldn't know how difficult it is to come down from this high cloud. Only your expression when saying that you 'dedicate your life' tells clearly that your wanting to live unconditional love is a beautiful concept, far from being realized. That you don't trade or sell doesn't create enough condition. It is like the person polishing one's shoes before going to climb the Himalayas. Your naivety indeed is astonishing.
Quote: We see this in your Web site also, though it is not clear, how, whatever you need comes to you.
BeiYin: I don't know what you see in my Web site, in which for sure I'm not talking about 'unconditional love' and about love only in very rare occasions.
Quote: Do you just trust in being nourished and taken care for by the loving Light, as we do?
BeiYin: Yes, I trust in myself, being inspired and guided from within. Knowing that in all existence there is an inbuilt 'growing force' you might call it 'loving light' or whatever. The expression 'being nourished and taken care of' is the image of a totally depending baby who has no choice and depends totally. That is the case of babies, plants and some animals, but grown up humans can take some action and do something to 'take care' as being responsible for oneself and for others.
Quote: Or do you repair pallets and sell them? This is not what we can compromise on.
BeiYin: What I do is part of the response to what shows up in front of me. When I saw that trees are cut to make pallets out of them and then these are used only once and then these went into the rubbish, then I saw the possibility to save some forest by recycling these pallets, putting them back to be reused and that's what we have been doing. In this way we have saved thousands of trees and the motivation was not to make some money. To impute such a motivation to me tells something about you and the way you interpret others...
Quote: Total clarity and open sharing on all the levels is a basic foundation for being and living together.
BeiYin: Sounds great as a concept, but wait: You are stepping with this into the best and hardest lesson about reality of humans. You will need to come down from your cloud and deal with human nature which includes your own and this is probably the hardest to do for you. What about 'unconditional love'? Or maybe just 'love'? Wouldn't this be the most basic foundation necessary in 'being and living together'?
Quote: We did not read anything about children on your site - we have 3 children and know that children are a main focus.
BeiYin: If there are children present then of course the grownups are taking care of them the best possible way, that's their responsibility, the same we do with animals and plants, but we can't say that children are a 'main focus'. We grow some vegetables and fruits, but these are not our 'main focus'. Our main focus is to relate and respond to whatever shows up in our daily life, in our nearest surrounding and at more global levels. I suggest that you read my health pages... The majority of humans suffer sooner or later in their life from various diseases. These are treated in such a way that this can't be called 'healing'. I don't want to go into details now but the most important is that the attitude about disease is blocking the individual growing process and so the real healing, which includes the whole being. There is wasted so much energy and the chance to go into a subtle knowing about oneself... Instead people are going from one disease into the next, feeling as a victim of circumstances. Etc. If I can give some information, coming out of my personal healing process, then with the same amount of energy I would use to rise a child, I can save hundreds or thousands of people. I don't mean saving their life, but turning their suffering into a creative growing process. So this I can call 'main focus'.
Quote: We do not send them to school to learn the ways of an old society - together with us they live a new world - supported to be, who they already are.
BeiYin: There is no 'new world', except in your head. You and your children are living 'now' in this society and that's the only one we have. Your children will need to learn to live in this reality without depending too much on it. Or do you want to live totally isolated from this world without any contact to other people from outside and all influences? This shows again how naive you are in your concepts...
Quote: All our decisions are made in a common meditation circle; we do not discuss about anything, nor ponder, nor worry. We go to our heart and calibrate and expand our reality from there, by the infinite power of the loving universe that we surrender to constantly.
BeiYin: Great! With such a beautiful concept for sure you will attract some people. But then will start your lesson, if you want it or not. It will not help that you will 'invite people to leave' (your words at the phone) when they don't agree with you and express themselves. There is no way around: Go on, live your concepts...
Comments from BeiYin:
Quote: We wish you warmth, being loved, company, that loves you and a painless transformation...
BeiYin: Again this shows your incredible naivety. What doesn't mean that you don't have a good intention, for sure you have and it will convince other people as your identification with your concepts and your self image is so strong, that it looks nearly real. Who is attracted by you will be exactly the right challenge for you and you for the one being attracted... To believe that there will be a 'painless transformation' will be probably the most disappointing experience, because this doesn't exist - or is there anybody who can report about a 'painless transformation' in humans? Just to expect this shows clearly that this person hasn't gone yet through any transformation, except changing and modifying one concept with another concept, this indeed is painless.
Quote: 20 years can pass very fast... Let us know, when you really went through them, finally really discovering, that you are worth to be loved, we will be there, when the doors open...
BeiYin: Years are passing fast if you are sleeping most of the time or having the condition of a zombie. You haven't even read my response carefully, but of course you can't see what you don't want to see... And that comes out of your conditioning. 'You will be there when the doors open'? I tell you: There can't open any doors because there are no doors. The doors are within yourself, in your condition and your concepts, in your self image and believes. Expressed through beautiful words, pretending a reality which just is fiction without concrete realization...
When I talk to you like this then not to push you down, but to provide the possibility that when you have been fallen down from your cloud, - which is inevitable -, that you might remember my words and not fall even deeper into a depression without being able to see a creative solution, - what then could be a 'transformation'...
Here the 'beautiful' response to the above comments:
There is a light, that can be seen.
There is a light, that can be lived.
There is all that there is ...
Comment from BeiYin:
Quote: "There is a light, that can be seen. There is a light, that can be lived. There is all that there is ...
Living Love Now"
BeiYin: This is a no-response, withdrawing oneself into higher spheres, sweeping everything which might cause doubts or questioning oneself, under the carpet, together with other unwanted influences. These 'spiritual' concepts have an inbuilt untouchable self defense. There can't be said anything. But one thing is sure: Life will confront you with reality and on the long run you will not be able to hide...
Quote: We are living a new society, based in unconditional love, enjoying the process/progress to be there, where fear is not given any space any more! We do not sell or trade and dedicate our life to live unconditional love on all the levels.
BeiYin: The concept of 'unconditional love' is probably the highest possible. Wanting to live this on 'all the levels' is a survival game which will keep you busy for some extended time... But does unconditional love exist in real life on this planet? Obviously not. Children are growing up with the need for love and even for unconditional love, because due to the limited conditions of their parents they rarely get enough love, so as grownups they carry this unfulfilled need with them which is never realized. So what humans have done out of this longing, is that they have projected this urge into idealistic images: God, Jesus, Loving Light, higher Self, etc. From there comes then unconditional love and can be expected and every thing what happens can be interpreted as an expression of love from higher levels without the need to go into it to find a more down to earth and personal reason. Indeed a perfect way to defend oneself against everything which doesn't make sense and doesn't fulfill the daily need for love even only in the most simple and personal way.
I have done my part and I hope it will make clear to any one who reads this how 'beautiful' concepts can be used in a very tricky way for one's personality games, surviving into another dimension - within one's own head... Also this is an aspect of human nature and we all posses it! So our real spiritual path is to watch out and be aware of the many ways to keep one's established self-image and with this one's existence intact... Any question?
After going beyond personalities/egos, we found Love, Serving, Expanding, being in the Now...
Totally caught in your mind? Just open...
Comment BeiYin: One of the greatest abilities of humankind is, beside the capacity of thinking, the one of imagination, but at the same time it is one of the most tricky traps. As imagination gives the possibility to fill one's void and through identification with it gives the feeling of existence and a goal one can strive for, at the same time it builds an invisible wall between the fiction of 'personality' and reality. One needs to look through the tricks the personality has created for one's survival and the first steps for this is to learn about 'human nature', this can also happen by observing nature with plant and animal behavior. This might guide to self knowledge and understanding of one's inbuilt and mostly unconscious habits and behavior. Then there is still a long way to go to be able 'to go beyond personality'. This is hardly possible if one has adapted the high pitched concepts of 'love, living harmony, the Now. etc.' With these beautiful and satisfying concepts one can go into many activities and get one's satisfaction out of it, like: teaching, serving, expanding, being in the Now, etc. - Fooling oneself and others, believing that this is real and so finding one's sense and getting self confirmation out of it. And of course being absolutely sure of oneself and one's ideas and so there's no space for doubts or any question...
PS: It is not just being 'caught in one's mind'. People are caught in what the believe they are, a conglomeration of mind, emotions, physical, all these properties building the 'personality', which includes of course all those beautiful ideas, beliefs, concepts. Part of the self image, coming out of New Age influences, is the image of 'being open' - but in reality there is only openness for the same concepts and ideas, then confirming oneself. Every thing else will be rejected or just ignored, so with the established set up of concepts the personality has build up a strong defense. The most easy way, if there is an influence which doesn't confirm, is to not respond and instead of this to repeat again and again some phrases, which sound nice but doesn't give any kind of information or clearing up something, just pathetic demagogy.
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