Rick:
You are definitely attracting the wrong people to FalconBlanco if even
a simple
condition such as
not smoking cannot be met.
BeiYin:
I do not attract the wrong people, the wrong people are attracted even
though I
make very clear what
the intention of FalconBlanco is and also make clear the conditions.
But the attraction
from certain conditions seem to be so strong that people don't see the
other conditions they don't want to see (the same as they do every where
else!) They read what they use then to give a positive picture of
themselves so that I accept them.
Rick:
I ask myself, where do these people come from? How do they get to hear
about you? In my case, I was deliberately looking for a place where a more
contemplative life could
be lived in a healthier
environment. Hopefully surrounded by people who like myself were
interested in life's
ultimate purpose. That of expanding consciousness by going beyond
the limitation's of
the mind.
BeiYin:
Most people find FB by searching the Internet, the same as you. As I said
before: They see what they want to see and then pretend that they are interested
in the same as
you are describing
as your goal. For example: Since many years I know that when someone writes
that he/she is interested in 'self knowledge' than this means in reality
that this person is looking for 'self confirmation' by finding similar
concepts to strengthen and reinforce ones own established world view and
self image. In this 'spiritual' people are the worst and their high pitched
sophisticated concepts give them not only a frame in which they find security
but also a perfect intellectual defense. These people talking a lot about
love and harmony and of course looking for a place and other people to
find it. But then when they don't get what they urgently need to confirm
their concept, then they get angry and some times even react with violence.
For sure the 'healthier environment' is also an attraction, but when people
see that this is connected with hard work, then they react with arguments
and complains not to engage themselves...
Rick:
The SRE is very important for this. These people knew that meditation was
a
condition. Why are
they not doing it? It is not difficult.
BeiYin:
Yes, it is a condition to come and stay here. Why they are not doing it?
Because they are sabotaging themselves. They don't want to give up their
precious personality, they don't want to loosening up their established
rigid structure, not even their permanent tension and they feel that this
will happen when they do the SRE. They might have practiced SRE and then
were more relaxed and with this something new opened up, but this is frightening
because they want to hold on the old they are so used, so they don't continue
to practice. Or they do it in a way that it doesn't cause any change. I'm
wondering why people don't ask me anything, knowing that I have the knowledge
to give them advice so that their practice can be more effective. Nothing,
I have to ask them, even if I have told them that they need to ask me if
they want to know something more.
Rick:
Are there other reasons for them leaving? Are there other conditions perhaps
that
they were not aware
of?
BeiYin:
They are mostly leaving because they don't get what they need: Self confirmation.
There are even people who are provoking in a strong way to be kicked out,
repeating an old pattern and when I don't respond in the way they want
(unconsciously) then they leave.
Rick:
Why are they fighting with you? What is it you want from them that they
resist so
much?
BeiYin:
I am not fighting at all, I'm not arguing, but it might happen that I point
out the provoking behavior and also explain why I am not responding and
what probably the reason is for their provocation. But mostly I have given
up to talk about it, because people don't want to listen, they don't want
to know about it and then they are leaving disappointed and giving me or
conditions the fault. What I want from people coming to FalconBlanco is
that they are interested to free and clear up themselves, being aware of
their reactions and why and where these are coming from. That these are
not provoked by the outside, but by themselves and their unconscious background,
because of their past and the influences they had received. I want that
people use the given space and the opportunity to encounter conditions,
to free themselves. Meditation is essential for this. I can give information
that can provide the understanding, but there are very few people who are
ready for it and I will not waste my energy any more. I had offered the
space and they could make their own experiences, they could talk with me,
asking what ever question, but very few could use it.
Rick:
I ask because I have accepted your invitation to visit but I do not want
to walk
into a war zone of
arguments between different beliefs. I have been fighting all my life
and the last thing
I want are more fights as they serve no purpose of any worth.
BeiYin:
I have told all people here to leave and most left already, the rest will
leave within the next two months and I have updated my Web site and have
make clear that I will not accept any visitors any more.
Rick:
I am looking for peace.
BeiYin:
As long as you are looking for peace at the outside you will be disappointed
moving around in this world. The only way is to find peace within yourself,
- then whatever you will encounter at the outside will not disturb your
inner peace. The basic condition to find this peace can be built easy and
effective by meditation or the SRE and because of this it is so important.
Rick:
I don't mind debating in a civil manner various beliefs or concepts, in
fact I
enjoy exploring into
the vagaries of philosophy or religion. As long as it is kept at a
light hearted level
and nobody trying to convert anybody else to their way of thinking.
BeiYin:
I agree, but most people who talk about their beliefs are not 'light hearted'
because they are identified
with their beliefs and defend these with all means. Talking
with them is difficult
and mostly useless, because they don't want to listen, are
defensive and use
the talk only to find confirmation in it by being strong in their
position and if possible
convincing the other. I'm not interested in this and pointing
out the reason of
their attitude only creates extreme reactions as they feel that they
loose position.
Rick:
To work together for a common goal and for the good of all. Is this not
love in action?
BeiYin:
Yes indeed, it is.
Rick:
Why is it so difficult to live a sane and happy life?
BeiYin:
Because humanity is still in a primitive state of evolution. Humans have
just started to be conscious about themselves, but at this stage they are
just beginning to be aware of their thinking and feeling, but only when
these show up as reactions and as humans are identified with their reactions
and these give them the feeling of existence, they do
every thing to produce
this feeling by repeating situations. Looking for occasions to be
able for this and
if they don't find them then they are creating these, mostly by provoking
others. Humans are strong in the stage of having developed a conceptual
thinking. Concepts give them the feeling of existence and so they fight
for their beliefs, concepts, self image and world view, to make these stronger,
so they can feel stronger and be happy for a moment, but then wanting more
and more. This is not to live sane. That's why I express myself about 'healing
oneself' explaining that healing means to be in a growing process, with
ones whole being and not just eliminating disturbing symptoms. In so far
disease is a
challenge and can
be used in a creative way. But it looks like I'm calling into empty space,
hardly any body listens. There is no response... But now this is a challenge
for me, this is my learning and growing process. I am not depending in
my action from the response of others. I express myself and do what seems
right for me and makes sense. Yes, I'm responsible to express myself in
a manner that it might cause the minimum of resistance, but I do as good
as I can and knowing that whatever doesn't fit into peoples already established
knowledge will provoke defense reactions, I can keep cool and let people
do with my expression what they want. Maybe what I say can work as a seed:
In its time it will sprout and grow...
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