There was a man who
used to play with his young daughter every evening after work. One evening
he was tired and just wanted to sit down and read the newspaper. He found
a picture of the Earth globe in the newspaper and tore it into small pieces
and, giving the pieces to his daughter, he told her when she had put the
puzzle together they would play. He thought he would be able to relax for
a while, but his daughter was back in a very short time.
He asked her how she
was able to put the picture together so quickly. She said,
“It was simple
- on the back was a picture of a man. I put the man together and the world
took care of itself.”
This sounds so easy,
but in daily life, and Internet is no exception, this seems hardly possible...
3 months later:
Testimonial:
My
intention to share...
This is just t
much!! I'm kicked out for the third time from a Fibro list. (Always different
one's) This last one is called ‘FibroHugs’, which seems to have
little to do with ‘hugs’, its just a cleverly selected name for a list
which is pretending to offer support and help, but in reality is stuck
in established ways of thinking and doesn't allow any space to express
oneself. It happened twice in the past that I was kicked out of a Fibromyalgia
mailing list when I was really feeling bad and needed help, but was questioning
the established way of treating disease. Now I am healed and I thought
that I wanted to share my experience with other people suffering from Fibromyalgia.
So I subscribed to the list ‘FibroHugs’ and sent my introduction
and the next day I made two comments to other posts and also posted an
article.
A few days later I could not post and the message showed up “membership
suspended!”
I investigated about
this ‘FibroHugs’ list and read their ‘Rules’, (and I urgently suggest that
everybody who wants to subscribe to this list reads it carefully!) these
Rules indeed are unbelievable, you must read this to see that something
like this is possible. They claim the total power for themselves, the total
control about everything! I even would stay in a prison voluntarily if
my presence makes sense, but in this list you can't open your mouth to
express yourself. They kick you out immediately if its not in the line
of their rigid worldview or they will charge you, up to 5.000$... Apart
of this everything one posts automatically becomes their property! I am
not surprised now that this list is dead, there are no creative comments,
no questions, no exchange, apart of the usual ‘how nice to meet you,
how beautiful that you found us...’ in the welcome messages. This list
is so false, pretending to give a safe space with loving people, but in
reality they are cheating themselves. This list, like others, are a clear
representation and demonstration of the sickness of our society and having
‘Fibromyalgia’ is only one sign of it. Wanting to have total control over
everything, believing to create ‘security’ in this way, is one of
the many errors of this totally materialistic society. People are stuck
in this and to be healed, this is my personal experience, one has first
to question oneself and one's surrounding, but this is not allowed, not
in this list and hardly in other places. So being in such a ‘safe’
space is the best way to stay sick. I investigated also about the
members of this list. As I have no access to the profiles, I went to the
Web sites of the members: 70% are commercial and the rest are 'cake Web
sites' of housewives, some artist's Web sites and also several porno Web
sites. Extremely few are dedicated to report about their healing process
and most of them use it to sell some dubious remedies. These Web sites
are accepted and exist since many months - and my Web site, which is absolutely
noncommercial and in which I am trying to question things and to investigate
about it, is banned and eliminated! Isn't this sick? I want to shout:
Wake
up! Get out of your sickness - which mainly means that of one's limited
world view. Open yourself, get out of false security and rigid rules!
But of course this in an illusion. If people are not ready for it then
nothing will make that they wake up. Disease could be a trigger, for a
few it is, but only first it breaks down the system on all levels. Maybe
this is inevitable for the next step...
|
I see it as the same way
of defense to survive for all systems, just that this way of a group confirmation
is more effective for the individual than being by themselves. I suppose
also that's why it is harder to penetrate with any information into these
groups, it is rejected very quick and strong, because the defense is stronger.
Anything not asked
for is not wanted. So it does seem that there is a problem offering information
in ‘groups’ where it isn't wanted. First people have to be looking for
it, then that makes them open to receive it. They don't see it, but being
in the groups they have selected, so they are getting what they want: Confirmation.
Reading the book: ‘Happy To Burn’ , I see much of what I have written
about it, but I suspect that more are able to receive what is written in
a book, because they don't have to take it so personal. There is the safety
felt of being able to read it and not having the feeling that it is directed
at oneself. That seems to be a basic requirement, otherwise the defense
response is too often provoked or too near and nothing can be received.
So somehow information has to be offered/posted in a non-personal personal
way. Or it has to be made clear that people need to ask to receive. But
then nobody asks... It's a difficult subject. How can one give information
about something that nobody wants? Yes, all want to get rid of their disease,
but they don't want to do something about it, what means to work about
it with themselves. The main reason might be that people feel like victims
and see disease as something coming from 'outside' which must be eliminated
as quick as possible and the medical profession is in charge of this. That's
the usual view and if now somebody comes and says something different like
disease is part of one's growing process and should be seen as a challenge
to be investigated, then this person must be crazy and other people like
in a list must be protected, so this person must be eliminated...
Maybe with ‘proofs’,
clear cut examples of the defense mechanism in operation, with comments
describing what's happening, like Galileo presenting evidence that the
earth is not flat... (Even though he was banned!)
What appears clear
from this experience, that it seems not possible to tell people directly
something what effects them in their belief system, even they are missing
the chance and possibility to heal themselves...
Now what is your position
in this? Do you believe people must be protected? Must I be banned from
lists and my Web site must be eliminated? That people don't need to think
for themselves, that they go on following the herd... Tell me what your
view is!
If you want to make
a comment write an email
or use my feedback form:
Your comments or questions:
create
form
|