Unconditional Love...
'Unconditioned' only exist when the person who is loving is not conditioned and this for sure is not the case if you love your children. You don't know if you would love them the same way if they would not be your children. You say yes, but the simple fact that they are your children is a condition and this love has it's base in an inbuilt instinct. Do you love all children the same like your own children? Probably not, but if you do so, then still there is a condition: They are children. Do you love all humans? Probably not, you will make distinctions, why? Because you are conditioned. If you love all humans, then you have still the condition that they are human. If you would love all existing being, no matter what it is, then your love might be without conditions. But who is capable for this? A very few human beings in the history of humanity. But they have given us something to strive for... So we all have images about what love could be. And we have made these images to such an intense property that we believe we possess these images. We try to live these images and we adapted them to situations as much as possible. If it doesn't fit really then we don't look too near...
The dilemma is, that possessing these images, we are not capable to see the reality and we don't want to see it, because then we would need to correct our concept of reality and this we don't want. So we prefer to defend what we believe is our truth. We easily feel offended and take information personal feeling attacked. Do you see what I mean?
I personally don't need to 'believe' that there are these 'possibilities' because I 'know' that it exist, but I also know that the concept about it is not realized and I am convinced that this is the main reason for most of our problems in daily life: The discrepancy between our image and our daily reality. We try to fit it somehow and it doesn't work, so we have found a lot of tricks to survive with our concepts: We escape, we fight, we don't look, we get angry, we find a reason, etc.
Do you feel offended now? It should be clear that this is not my intention. It should be also clear that this is your reaction out of your defense, because you need to defend your position, your image, your concept, your opinion. You are identified with this and this makes your 'personality'. This is the reason why you are separated from others. Your intention to go beyond the separation is coming out of a strong longing. Probably out of this is born the identification with images which then are felt like a 'quasi realization'. This is obvious but difficult to see, because it is a common state of partial blindness. Can you somehow sense what I am talking about?
I believe that we are entering in times where our survival depend on our capability to drop our blinders...BeiYin
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