you tell me what 'Reality' is?
That you are asking this question tells that you are somehow irritated
and not in balance with your feeling of existence. Something must have
disturbed you and now you are insecure in your position. I see it as a
positive sign and that you are starting to wake up. Usually people don't
ask such a question. This is unthinkable for them because they have no
doubts, not about themselves and not about the world that surrounds them.
Reality is what they perceive through their senses - and that's all.
There is no doubt that it might
People are limited in what they perceive, not at all being perfect even
though that's how they like to see themselves. People have no idea that
the interpretation they give to what they receive totally depends on their
personal background. It is difficult to be aware of this because stored
impressions, all kind of experiences and also traumas are mostly forgotten,
even though they are all still there and always present, but unconscious
and for the person like no existing. People receive a reality that depends
completely on their own established reality and this is a composition from
all those influences they have received during their life time.
This reality forms
the personality and is not very stable, it is easily influenced and needs
constantly to be defended and is in a permanent need to be confirmed.
Then there are a few
people who had the experience that it depends very much on ones perception
and that the personality works like a filter and interpreter. So it might
be that their self image they had until now is shattered and then there
comes the question: What is real? What is reality? Do you want to know
what your reality is? You still have your reality in your self image you
are carrying with you and you know what it is as you are living it. Or
do you want to know what my reality is?
Yes, tell me what your reality
is, I think I can learn from it...
There is not much sense in talking about my reality, because frankly it
goes beyond the experience of most people and can't be understood. My reality
has grown up to this moment through all my life and it is what it is because
of my life long experience and my personally collection of facts in my
life, that are transformed into the picture of my reality. It is like a
life long puzzle that finally makes sense to me beyond my personality.
Not because I could place all pieces into the right place, but because
I could bridge the missing pieces with intuition and insights. To tell
you about what my reality is would not mean much to you.
But at least I can try to understand
you and where you are...
You might put what I say in the drawers of your understanding to make it
to a part of your reality, but this has nothing to do with me or what I
see. Reality has to do with 'self knowledge' and this can't be transmitted
with words that mainly represent 'knowledge' and that means having established
concepts. Every word represents a concept. A word without concept is meaningless
and nonsense, - it has no sense. So one needs to learn until one understands
and so the word has become a concept of what it represents. It is the same
with the word 'reality'. Each individual has ones own concept about it.
Some are very basic and others are very sophisticated. The person with
the basic concept will have difficulties to understand a more sophisticated
concept and probably not wanting to know anything about it, because the
other concept might cause insecurity in ones established self image.
You wanted to talk about your personal
reality. Can't you explain to me what makes your reality so different from
mine or others?
Let me give you an example: You are a fish living all your life in water,
that's your reality, you don't know an other kind of reality, maybe you
have dreams, concepts, beliefs and fantasies about other realities, but
you live your life exclusively within the water. Maybe I'm a flying fish,
able to live sometimes outside the water. You might ask me how it is to
live not in the water. What could I tell you? Better not to talk about
it because if I tell you then this creates a desire and you might want
to be outside the water and this could be deathly for you if you are not
prepared. Whatever I could tell the other fish would only feed dreams and
images but would not touch the reality...'
But can't you tell me something
more generally what reality is and how to explore an other dimension, becoming
more real by getting over ones dreams and concepts? Isn't this growth?
Reality is that there are preferences and this is caused and depends on
your personality. Now, - there's a dilemma: The personality as being an
established system, does not want to change, only wants to get stronger.
If you want to do something to get over your personality then this creates
conflicts. Well, this is our daily reality in life... Comment:
that's what I'm experiencing and because of this I'm asking you. I don't
want to continue like I did until now, running after dubious goals, being
a consumer but never feeling really content or fulfilled. I feel desperate
and want to do something that makes more sense and brings me out of this
There is a page in the FalconBlanco Web site that gives a practical exercise
to go into another dimension or at least to make the experience of 'another
dimension'. But that's not the most important, it is more significant that
this exercise releases stress and so helps to be more aware of yourself,
that means being aware of your reactions. Reactions coming from your system
called 'personality'. Once you are aware of these, then you also will recognize
what has triggered these. Then slowly and in a smooth way you will get
to know yourself and you will expand your limitations, getting to know
yourself. With this you are creating the condition to connect and live
another dimension, growing out of your personality.
This exercise I called
and it is easy to do and you can start right now with the advice I give
at this Web page:
I will go there and do it right away.
Don't expect miracles, better don't expect anything, just do it. If you
have gotten little out of our talk, but starting to do the SRE then this
is the most important and you will soon be able to answer your question
yourself in the best way possible: By experiencing the answer! If there
shows up something in your practice that gives you doubts, then you can
ask me, here or with my feedback form.
I will do. - There is one thing more I want to ask you. It is said that
'people harvest what they seed'. Now after our talk I understand this in
so far that people are living in their own limited reality and are totally
programmed out of this. They see everything on the outside as a reality
about that one can't have any doubt or question and they don't know that
this is only the reflection of their personal and limited reality.
Is this right?
comes pretty near to the truth. - Cesar Millan, the 'dog whisperer' teaches
this to people by giving them the experience and making them understand,
that problems in the behavior of their dog are the reflection of their
own condition. If they change this then the dog will change nearly automatically
the bad behavior. One can learn from this a lot... We might talk about
it later. - - -
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