Conditions for Visitors - Helper - Permanent Member Aspirants last update 23. Feb. 2010

Why do you want to come to FalconBlanco?   Is the reason because you are looking for an alternative way of life, not being satisfied with what is offered by society? Is the reason because you want to be understood when you are expressing yourself? And are you open enough to receive impulses which not only serve to confirm yourself in the first place but to have a critical look at yourself? With other words: Do you have the urge to get to know yourself? Do you dare to quest yourself? To look at yourself even there might come up things you don't like? Are you ready to search for reasons  mainly within yourself, not giving the fault to the outside and other people? Are you really willing to enter into a personal healing process which includes all your existence? That means your mind, emotions and your body. Are you answering with 'YES' to these questions, then FalconBlanco might be a beneficial place for you and give you the space to discover yourself in a creative way and can be a stepping stone in your growing process and your home for some time.

Update: To come to FalconBlanco because you are looking for an alternative life style is NOT enough. You can't expect to realize your concepts and dreams at FalconBlanco, trying to manipulate the existing situation and forcing your desired ideal on others and the place. Frankly: I'm more than tired of such people. They are not even able to listen or to see what is present and they are not interested to get to know what there is and why. They have no question, just the need to find confirmation for their 'beautiful' concepts and their established self image! People ignore what I'm saying and writing and try to push through, desperately in need to realize their concepts that are essential part of their existence!  FalconBlanco is not a place for people to survive! You can't come here just because you have no place to go or you have no work and no money and you are in need of food. As much as we like to help people, we can't accept them here. Also we can not accept unstable people, - whatever the reason is: drug addiction, emotional traumas or mental problems. Who wants to survive with ones concepts and self image and can't do this in usual conditions of this society and there for wants to come to FalconBlanco to find 'like minded and kindred spirits', then I must say clearly: This is not possible here! Probably you came to your self image after a lot of suffering and searching and with this you want to get out of this society that now is so different how you feel and want to live. But at FalconBlanco we are dealing with *reality*, being somehow outside of society, but still connected to it, relating and responding to whatever shows up in our daily life. That includes what shows up from ones inside as reaction when relating to daily ordinary happenings. Our intention is to get out of our conditionings, to go beyond our concepts and precious self image. People who are coming here with their expectations, wanting to get confirmation for their personality with all established concepts and self image, are not capable to live here. Yes, they have the strong longing and the urge to live their new self image, that had finally given them a way to survive, but:  They will be only disappointed and not willing to look at themselves to find out about their conditioning, giving the fault for their suffering to the outside! You will NOT find what you are looking for at FalconBlanco! We must say very clearly: Better live where you are and go through your disappointments there. We don't want to deal with it any more, we have done it for 35 years! Now we don't want wasting our energy! So better stay away! The reason can't be that you want to be understood, it is also necessary that you are able to express yourself without being animated or provoked to do so. With this I don't mean that you just release your accumulated anger! Yes, of course this is also an expression but doing so and provoking people to be able to 'express' yourself, is not what I mean.  Asking to be open enough to receive impulses and to be able to have a critical look at yourself obviously is ask far too much. People are not conscious about the fact that they are constantly looking for confirmation... The urge to get to know oneself is so rare that it hardly exist. Or is there really somebody who seriously quest oneself? My experience at FalconBlanco tells me that giving the fault to the outside and to other people is just the usual behavior and frankly: I am tired of this. I don't want to play the role of the bad father, not even the role of the good father. I don't want to confirm people in their confirmation games and I'm tired to see their frustration about it, when they are not willing to look at themselves and not wanting to hear anything about what could get them out of it: To really get to know themselves. Yes, people want to get healed, but they want to be healed by someone else or to take pills. That's what they are used to do. Being told that they need to take self responsibility, getting out of dependencies, that's not what people want to do or to hear about it. People want to come to live at FalconBlanco, because they feel that there is a way to get out of their sickness, frustration, depression and desperation, feeling trapped in their limited conditions, so they feel attracted and drawn to come here. But when they show up, then they just continue with their old ways to react and act, but this doesn't work here or at least not with me, because I don't join their games - and then they leave. Not being able even to look at themselves with the possibility to change themselves and their established behavior, but they are not really willing to do so. Frankly: As this is daily reality and I am dealing with it now for 35 years, I must say that this is enough now! People are attracted and then they expect that I take care of them, not willing to do something about their condition by themselves. They don't ask anything, they don't want to hear anything and when I talk, then they don't listen or their strong resistance is showing up. When I point this out, then they get angry, but even though - they don't express themselves, just showing passive resistance and then they leave. I don't want to continue like this because I don't see anything creative in it, as there is no *growing* happening. I don't want to hear your convincing stories so that I will accept you at FalconBlanco. Then when coming here will not be a creative happening and you will defend yourself in your self image and concepts. You are used to this kind of game, but this doesn't work good enough to give you satisfaction, so coming here you will just feel disturbed and then creating bad mood and negative energy, so better don't come here when you don't feel the need to change this and wanting to work on it. What means being aware of your established self image with all those connected games. The only way to do something about the dilemma of wanting and not being able, is that you start to practice the 'Stress Release Exercise'. You can find advice by reading the page and then just do it. It is easy! You can ask for help if there is any problem showing up.  Having practiced for some time, you will find out, that you can live an 'alternative life style' just there where you are. For sure this is the best way to get to know yourself, you don't depend on any surrounding or other people. You can do it by yourself  and you will have the full benefit.  If you come to FalconBlanco, as a visitor or as a 'Helper' or as a long term member, then we expect that you agree with our intention and also want to support it. The basic condition is, that you join our daily practice doing the 'Stress Release Exercise' or the meditation you are used to do. If you are not doing it already, then you can get advice and we expect that you do it regularly every day during your stay. If you are not interested, then don't come! If you came here with the good intention and then not participating, then you better leave.  Update: Lately I received several comments pointing out that my writings are negative and that this would not attract people. So, is it 'negative' because it describes the reality experiencing with people? A reality that is the result of the conditioning of people and their incapacity to be aware of it. In deed, if one wants to hold on this, then any critic and questioning is seen as 'negative' because one wants to survive with ones established self image. This should be absolutely clear by now and I make the statement:    We We don't want any visitors who need a place for their survival! Not  for their dreams, illusions, concepts, pictures and all together their precious self images. Not even if this is the most beautiful, spiritual and most high pitched latest sophisticated ones!  Is this clear? Probably not. If you are interested to become a member of FalconBlanco, then this should and must be clear.

We welcome a limited number of visitors who are willing to stay at FalconBlanco for at least three months. Our experience after many years has shown that staying only for two or three weeks doesn't serve any body, not the visitor and not the host. There is no maximum time limit for the duration of your staying. If you feel comfortable here and the other with you, then you can stay as long as you want.
The condition for your staying at FB is that there is fulfilled a balance in what is given and what is received, that means that every body participates in common activities like the daily practice of the 'Stress Release Exercise', also you need to participate in the daily work to maintain the place, that means a minimum of four hours daily work (except on Sunday). But be aware that FalconBlanco is not a company where you drop the tool when you believe that you have done what is requested! You are motivated and interested to do what is needed... There are absolutely no costs for staying at FalconBlanco. With other words: There is no money involved, you don't pay and you don't get paid. (There's a list available of daily work in which one can participate.)
You are responsible for your own health insurance. When you arrive at FalconBlanco you must have a return ticket or enough money to be able to go where you want to go.
If you want to come to FalconBlanco, then the easiest way for a first contact is that you send an email and tell why you want to come and for how long. Give us your telephone number (only land line) and the time when you can be reached best. Then we might phone you. You should get as much information as you can about FalconBlanco and our intentions. We suggest that you read our Web site thoroughly, - take your time, you will not waste energy doing so. After reading the FAQ",  don't hesitate to ask more questions which might help to clear things up. Knowing well, that the best information given, can't avoid that people project and interpret their expectations, ignoring any information which might upset their expectations and needs. Then when arriving, they are disappointed and give the fault to us, the circumstances and the situation. This is still OK if you are willing to work on this, clearing up your concepts and expectations, otherwise your coming only creates 'bad vibrations' and is not creative at all; what means that it doesn't help you.
Apart of this we must reserve that the first week of your stay is a trial. If we don't feel comfortable with you, we might decide that you have to leave and of course you are free to leave at any moment if this is your decision. Taking the time for some email and a telephone call will hopefully avoid disappointment.
We ask you not to show up at FalconBlanco without our confirmation. We would like to be more spontaneous, but our experiences during many years have told us not to accept people without clearing up the basic conditions.
Write an emailand mention in your message that you have read this page, that you understand what is said and then make your personal comment. Please don't waste your time and energy and also ours by not being clear about it and interpreting our Web site by projecting your needs. This might sound harsh, but many years of experience have shown that staying at FalconBlanco, not fulfilling the mentioned basic conditions, doesn't result in creative changes only causes frustration and disappointment in the visitor  and not being able and willing to deal with it and so questioning this you will leave within a few days, just taking a bad taste with you and this for sure is not our intention. So please be honest with us and yourself!
Drugs, alcohol, tobacco, money making are not part of our lifestyle!
It must be clear that if you don't feel comfortable with our lifestyle at FalconBlanco then you better should not come here. It is indeed disturbing the whole group energy, when somebody comes pretending something and then doing the contrary and hiding it. So please be honest with us and yourself and don't come if you are not clear about it.
PS: Reading all this now after some time, I can't say that I feel comfortable with it. All this sounds so harsh and is representing not really the 'lifestyle' and energy of FalconBlanco. But the experience with people are forcing me to make these conditions and express myself about it in such a harsh way...
Update: I am forced to be even more harsh: Warning to all pretender: If you come to FalconBlanco and it shows up, that you are smoking, taking drugs, being an alcoholic and not interested and motivated to participate in our daily 'Stress Release Exercise' or Meditation and not wanting to be engaged in the necessary daily work, then you will have to leave, that simple!

Latest update: As a consequence after all the experience with visitors over the years and especially the last few years with smokers, drug addicts and alcoholics, I came very near to the point to close the place. It seems, there is no way to keep liars and pretender away. When people are in a strong need, then they are urged only to see what they want and need to see, every thing else they will ignore and even when I express myself in the most clear way, they will not see it! It has shown that smoker, drug addicts and alcoholics are especially strong and talented in this. They are not only lying to themselves, but automatically to every body else and the astonishing fact is, that they are not conscious about it and believe their own lies! I didn't know this in it's consequence and this brought FalconBlanco nearly to a break down. We are slowly recovering from it now, but this brought me to the strict decision not to accept any smoker, drug addicts and alcoholics and if it shows that a person came here lying about it, then this person has to leave immediately! Fa r t     o f f!  . . . That simple!

These are many words and it might be that you are confused. If you want to come, as a visitor or as a member, then we should clear up things as much as possible. So the best is that you ask questions, we appreciate your comments and you can write here, it will be send to us automatically:
 

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