Update:
To come to FalconBlanco because you are looking for an alternative life
style is NOT enough. You can't expect to realize your concepts and dreams
at FalconBlanco, trying to manipulate the existing situation and forcing
your desired ideal on others and the place. Frankly: I'm more than tired
of such people. They are not even able to listen or to see what is present
and they are not interested to get to know what there is and why. They
have no question, just the need to find confirmation for their 'beautiful'
concepts and their established self image! People ignore what I'm saying
and writing and try to push through, desperately in need to realize their
concepts that are essential part of their existence!
FalconBlanco
is not a place for people to survive! You can't come here just
because you have no place to go or you have no work and no money and you
are in need of food. As much as we like to help people, we can't accept
them here. Also we can not accept unstable people, - whatever the reason
is: drug addiction, emotional traumas or mental problems. Who wants to
survive with ones concepts and self image and can't do this in usual conditions
of this society and there for wants to come to FalconBlanco to find 'like
minded and kindred spirits', then I must say clearly: This is not possible
here! Probably you came to your self image after a lot of suffering and
searching and with this you want to get out of this society that now is
so different how you feel and want to live. But at FalconBlanco we are
dealing with *reality*, being somehow
outside of society, but still connected to it, relating and responding
to whatever shows up in our daily life. That includes what shows up from
ones inside as reaction when relating to daily ordinary happenings. Our
intention is to get out of our conditionings, to go beyond our concepts
and precious self image. People who are coming here with their expectations,
wanting to get confirmation for their personality with all established
concepts and self image, are not capable to live here. Yes, they have the
strong longing and the urge to live their new self image, that had finally
given them a way to survive, but:
They
will be only disappointed and not willing to look at themselves to find
out about their conditioning, giving the fault for their suffering to the
outside! You will NOT find what you are looking for at FalconBlanco! We
must say very clearly: Better live where you are and go through your disappointments
there. We don't want to deal with it any more, we have done it for 35 years!
Now we don't want wasting our energy! So better stay away!
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The reason can't be
that you want to be understood, it is also necessary that you are able
to express yourself without being animated or provoked to do so. With this
I don't mean that you just release your accumulated anger! Yes, of course
this is also an expression but doing so and provoking people to be able
to 'express' yourself, is not what I mean.
Asking to be open
enough to receive impulses and to be able to have a critical look at yourself
obviously is ask far too much. People are not conscious about the fact
that they are constantly looking for confirmation... The urge to get to
know oneself is so rare that it hardly exist. Or is there really somebody
who seriously quest oneself? My experience at FalconBlanco tells me that
giving the fault to the outside and to other people is just the usual behavior
and frankly: I am tired of this. I don't want to play the role of the bad
father, not even the role of the good father. I don't want to confirm people
in their confirmation games and I'm tired to see their frustration about
it, when they are not willing to look at themselves and not wanting to
hear anything about what could get them out of it: To really get to know
themselves. Yes, people want to get healed, but they want to be healed
by someone else or to take pills. That's what they are used to do. Being
told that they need to take self responsibility, getting out of dependencies,
that's not what people want to do or to hear about it.
People want to come
to live at FalconBlanco, because they feel that there is a way to get out
of their sickness, frustration, depression and desperation, feeling trapped
in their limited conditions, so they feel attracted and drawn to come here.
But when they show up, then they just continue with their old ways to react
and act, but this doesn't work here or at least not with me, because I
don't join their games - and then they leave. Not being able even to look
at themselves with the possibility to change themselves and their established
behavior, but they are not really willing to do so. Frankly: As this is
daily reality and I am dealing with it now for 35 years, I must say that
this is enough now! People are attracted and then they expect that I take
care of them, not willing to do something about their condition by themselves.
They don't ask anything, they don't want to hear anything and when I talk,
then they don't listen or their strong resistance is showing up. When I
point this out, then they get angry, but even though - they don't express
themselves, just showing passive resistance and then they leave. I don't
want to continue like this because I don't see anything creative in it,
as there is no *growing* happening. I don't want to hear your convincing
stories so that I will accept you at FalconBlanco. Then when coming here
will not be a creative happening and you will defend yourself in your self
image and concepts. You are used to this kind of game, but this doesn't
work good enough to give you satisfaction, so coming here you will just
feel disturbed and then creating bad mood and negative energy, so better
don't come here when you don't feel the need to change this and wanting
to work on it. What means
being aware of
your established self image with all those connected games.
The only way to do something
about the dilemma of wanting and not being able, is that you start to practice
the 'Stress Release Exercise'.
You can find advice by reading the page and then just do it. It is easy!
You can ask for help if there is any problem showing up.
Having practiced for
some time, you will find out, that you can live an 'alternative life style'
just there where you are. For sure this is the best way to get to know
yourself, you don't depend on any surrounding or other people. You can
do it by yourself and you will have the full benefit.
If you come to FalconBlanco,
as a visitor or as a 'Helper' or as a long term member, then we expect
that you agree with our intention and also want to support it. The basic
condition is, that you join our daily practice doing the 'Stress Release
Exercise' or the meditation you are used to do. If you are not doing it
already, then you can get advice and we expect that you do it regularly
every day during your stay. If you are not interested,
then don't come! If you came here with the good intention and
then not participating, then you better leave.
Update:
Lately
I received several comments pointing out that my writings are negative
and that this would not attract people. So, is it 'negative' because it
describes the reality experiencing with people? A reality that is the result
of the conditioning of people and their incapacity to be aware of it. In
deed, if one wants to hold on this, then any critic and questioning is
seen as 'negative' because one wants to survive with ones established self
image. This should be absolutely clear by now and I make the statement:
W e
We don't want any visitors who need a place
for their survival! Not for their dreams, illusions, concepts, pictures
and all together their precious self images. Not even if this is the most
beautiful, spiritual and most high pitched latest sophisticated ones!
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Is this clear? Probably
not. If you are interested to become a member of FalconBlanco, then this
should and must be clear.
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