What do you mean by 'transformational change'?
Question:  In answering this myself I would say: A change that makes one start a completely different lifestyle. One where the person is so certain that what he/she is doing on the deepest level is right and for good that there is no room for fear, or wrong actions and decisions. All actions are completely in tune with the rest of the universe.
This is my understanding, I am interested in hearing yours.
BeiYin: What you are saying describes a possible result of a transformational change but not what it is by itself. Indeed, a 'transformational change' will have significant results, which will turn out and show in one's lifestyle, behavior, etc.
There might be no fear anymore, as fear is a reaction coming out from one's unconscious background and this might be cleared up and also is the result of a transformational change.
Now how does this happens? If ice melts and becomes water, then this is a transformational change. If waste goes into the compost and what comes out is good earth, or if a seed grows and becomes a plant, or a caterpillar becomes a butterfly, then this we might understand as a transformational change.
The problems with humans is that they can't really 'understand' what it is, unless they have passed this transformational change themselves, - as it includes one's whole being... 'Understanding' as long as it happens in the mind, just can be a concept and then this even might hinder such a change, because the individual does not want such a change and will do everything to avoid it. Concepts do a good job in this and there is no end in this kind of understanding. So whatever I might explain it will be added to one's already stored concepts and this will not help to further any 'transformational change'. So that means that I have to refuse to talk about it as whatever I might express it will be used to add to your concepts.
So only thing I can do is to point out why it is so difficult that there happens a 'transformational change'. This should be a new subject, but at least I will start here:
It has to do with what might be called 'Personality', that what we believe we are. This is not specifically 'human' because also animals have it, but humans are totally identified with it and that's what makes it so extremely difficult to go beyond it. The system of 'personality', like all systems, wants to keep itself together, for sure not wanting to lose itself, instead of this the personality is trying to get more and more, whatever this might be: Property on all levels, security on all levels, power on all levels, etc. If there is property, then there is power. Property not only on the material level, although the tendency in our society puts the most importance on this, but after this comes the intellectual property. If one is rich, then one has the possibility to manipulate others and they will serve to get even richer. The same with intellectual properties: one can manipulate others and make them to followers or make that they do what one wants. There is no end and one can never get enough. Do you think those people want a 'transformational change'?
So then who might want it? Probably nobody. Those who are professionals for 'transformational change' are using their knowledge to manipulate the individuals and the masses for their own purpose. For example: The professionals in spiritual matters like the churches and religious organizations. What are they doing? They offer concepts and rituals. This is enough to keep people as followers and keep them quiet.
(Churches are still the richest companies in the world). Next: Professionals for psychological changes: They have their techniques to treat people, charge a lot of money and if they can't help then they describe medication: Prozac, etc. Do you think they are interested in an 'transformational change'? Hahaha. Politicians: For sure they are not interested in any 'transformational change', this is so obvious that I don't need to say more about it. Medical doctors: There might be a few interested, but what happens is that they are mainly interested in treating symptoms by describing medication.
Now are there individuals among those professionals they might be interested in a 'transformational change' for themselves? Probably not, because they use their professional knowledge as part of their personality to be confirmed in their existence and if they can combine for example the knowledge from psychology with spiritual concepts then they are absolutely unbeatable and any 'transformational change' is kept out for ever. Why? Because whatever might happen and whatever challenge shows up, it will be successfully rejected and put in its place where it belongs. One's superiority will stay untouched. Change might happen always, because adaptation is necessary and wanted for one's personality, but for sure no 'transformational change'.
Question: Yes, I know that 'I' don't want to give up and 'I' don't want to know about the possibility that 'I am' still hanging on with an intellectual concept or other kind of trick - fooling myself.

So then my other question is what is the yard-stick that we can use to measure ourselves - in an independent way without needing an authority to tell us - if there might be something currently needing transformation?
BeiYin:  Dropping one concept in exchange for another one is not a 'transformational change'. But if you become aware that you are identified with your concepts and getting your feeling of existence out of it, then this might be the beginning...
Of course we are fooling ourselves and we are clinging using all kind of tricks. All and every thing turns around the 'I'.
If you can measure yourself? A good question. You can't, there isn't such a 'stick'. Do what feels right at the moment, knowing that this is not a measure, but the only way to do it, because your feeling of what is right is still too much influenced by yourself: your needs, your wishes, your dreams, your self image, your concepts, your unconscious background. But if you sensitively are aware then you will observe yourself and discover the tricks you are using, again being aware that with this you are going into another game, etc. Your own reactions to what shows up in daily life from your surrounding and from people are the best measure, if you are aware of this and observe and reflect about it, that's all. So better relax and trust that finally it will come to an end, what means you will not react anymore because your background has been cleared up, more you can't do. And then a 'transformational change' might happen.
Question: It seems to me that it is a good thing for any individual to have some kind of change, especially to bring one more in touch with ones spiritual side.
BeiYin: "Some kind of change?" Is there a real change? Or is there just a change in concepts? Does it make any difference if somebody is killed because of materialistic reasons or killed because of religious reasons? For the killed person for sure it will not make any difference, although the religious motivation might give more strength to the killer...
What is the 'spiritual side' of a person? This seems to be part of an image and so has little or nothing to do with 'spirituality'.
Question:Then let me call it 'self growth'. Isn't this a spiritual learning process?
BeiYin: Let me give another example:
I am observing a 'very spiritual person', that's how she calls herself, and she is in a strong 'spiritual transformational process'. At least that's what she believes... Probably this is not real, but this person is totally involved in it and obviously believes that she is nearly enlightened. But her daily life behavior showing up in her reactions are still totally unconscious and to such an extreme, that no communication is possible. So it is obvious that she is pretending, but she's not at all conscious about it. One can see it how she still is doing this old game of provoking reactions in another person and then using the situation to react even stronger and of course finding a reason for this and giving the fault to the other. Trying to draw the other into arguing: to win the game. If this doesn't work, because one doesn't join this game, then getting into a desperate situation with the need to pull the emergency brake. You see, it is much more complicate and the 'personality' owns a huge arsenal of tricky ways to defend itself. There seems to be no limitation, but there is: There happens an inner blockage where no trick will help to find one's 'self confirmation'. This might be called 'guardian of the threshold' and keeps the door close for every body who is not ready. There is no trick possible and always turns the pretending person back to oneself. So the last trick might be to end in total 'craziness' to save oneself. Pretty absurd and sad, but it works...
Question: Knowing that whatever one does, that this is a 'turning around oneself' isn't there a way, without forcing something, that one can do to trick oneself not doing any trick again?
BeiYin: Yes there is: As we are getting into stress because we must constantly defend our precious personality with all its properties: Ones self image, beliefs, opinions, knowledge, concepts, etc. and these properties are constantly influenced if not attacked, because the daily reality doesn't fit completely, so then stress is caused and accumulated. Now this accumulated stress is used by ones personality to keep going ones games. So the most effective way to end ones games, is to take out this kind of stored energy. This can be done by a simple exercise. I call it 'StressReleaseExercise' and I have given advice how to do it at the page: http://falconblanco.com/release and I will talk about it in my next audio. - - - Thank you.

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