Aliens answering Personal Questions!

Aliens who come to visit our planet, are not only more advanced technically, but also are better in leading their personal life, in a more creative way than we do here on earth, what obviously needs to be improved when we look at all our suffering caused by disease, a poor state of emotions and a ruling mind.

You have the unique chance now to ask an alien something that is personal and the most important for yourself!
We are in contact with an alien who is researching the personal development of humans and as part of the study our friend is willing to answer questions that are relating to this subject.
So please do not waste this opportunity with trivial and technical questions, but ask only those questions that you feel are important for deeper understanding of yourself, your life and your challenges. You can use the form at the end of this page.

Questions & Answers:

Emma: My first question is: Why did you come to our planet Earth?
If I like your answer then I will ask a more personal question. It would be great to have a conversation with someone whose main interest is not money making or promoting oneself so I am excited to find out what aliens are like!

Answer: I came here, because the evolution of planet Earth effects the whole planet system and beyond. It is becoming more and more obvious that the human species is stuck in their growing process. The suffering as a result of this has reached a point, were self destruction seems the only way forward, individually and as a whole. This can be avoided in a creative way and I am here to give information to those individuals, who want to do something about this serious situation and are asking what the possibilities are to speed up the positive development of themselves and so with whole humanity.

* * * Nerestro: Wer bist du und was ist dein Hintergrund, wie lautet deine Geschichte?
Ich würde einen Außerirdischen gerne verstehen wollen.
Translation: Who are you and what is your background, - what is your story? I would like to understand the alien.

Answer: I can understand that you need to know about me, to be able to open up to me. It will be difficult to give details because there is hardly anything about me that is similar or can be compared to humans and their surroundings and conditions, but I will try.  I'm what you would call a 'teenager' and I'm studying 'The personal development of the human species'. My study is the reason why I'm here. The other reason is that like every body on my planet, I want to help underdeveloped and suffering beings. I have only the wisdom of a teenager, without the realization of my elders, but I believe that I will be able to answer your questions. Let's see…

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Isidora: I ask the question that I am asking myself and I couldn't yet find an answer to, namely:  What is the most urgent and important that we humans need to learn?

Answer: The most urgent is that humans start to be more aware. They should search for solutions for their problems within themselves, instead of at the outside by trying to change others, circumstances and surroundings. All suffering, disappointment and frustration is an accumulation of stress and will sooner or later manifest in disease.

To start with, you as a human can become critical about your habits and avoid everything that holds you in a reduced state of consciousness. That means that you make choices about what you take in and not just consume because clever salesmen make it desirable for you. Be critical about the influences you are receiving from entertainment, media and your direct surroundings. Listen to the real needs of your body, mind and emotions.

It is the most urgent that you go beyond the common materialistic world view, especially when it is masked with all kind of fake images and pictures that make it seem more spiritual than that. Learn about the manipulation that is done to humans since beginning of mankind and that has created a fake reality humans are still trying to live, with their expectations leading to stress and frustration. Learn about human nature and see why you are holding on to established conditions even though these are keeping you in a limited state. You will need to change your attitude, but this you can't learn, because any change can only be the result of your transformation when learning about yourself.

* * * Gelsomino: How can we "humans" live in peace?

Answer: Peace can only be the result of a state of consciousness that is realized, as an individual and as a whole, all countries living together on one planet. If people are in balance with themselves, being self responsible and relating in a direct way to whatever shows up in their daily life, then they are in peace with themselves and with each other and also with other nations. It becomes a natural state of being.

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Lord Arawn: Meeting an alien is essentially the same thing as one day meeting God and getting to ask a question, since we're all assuming these aliens know pretty much anything.
As for my question:  "Your species is advanced. I assume you've tried out a few social experiments. Tell me please if preserving individuality or switching towards a collective consciousness is a better path for humanity?"

Answer: For sure in prehistorically times all beings went through social problems, like you now here on Earth.
At my home planet, we don't need any kind of 'experiments'. A social system represents the consciousness that is in the same state as in the majority of members in the species, realized at this step of evolution. The social system can only change, and this will happen without any manipulation, when the level of awareness rises above the primitive state that it has now here on Earth. To change a chaotic, corrupt and rigid condition, one must start with oneself...

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Remus: Well, I want to ask if you have a religion or some kind of spiritual belief system like humans have?
And my follow up question is: Do you know if there is life after death? Now maybe you don't have a concept of a soul but do you have something similar to this?

Answer: It might be difficult to understand and accept, but we at our planet do not have any kind of religion or spiritual belief system, - not at all! We are not living with concepts about anything and we don't try to fulfill a certain image of how persons, conditions or situations should be! We are not bound to any rules or laws as we are responsible for ourselves and we have no need to go into conceptual dream worlds, we stay in what happens in the present moment. With other words: We don't go into a reality that is not part of living truth. With your words: We are connected with the *source* or *Creator*.
Your question about 'life after death' for us is not essential since the boundaries between life and death are not drastic and dramatic like here on Earth. Life and death are both states of *being* and the transition from one to the other can be smooth and effortless and we can do this being fully conscious about it. We don't need any concepts about it, like the existence of a 'soul, heaven or reincarnation'. Our knowledge goes beyond any individual's mind storage and is present in our continuing existence always as a common, permanent awareness.

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Teddy: It is obvious that we humans are innocent, blind, confused, ignorant, limited, narrow minded and so on, - and as an obvious result we are stressed, frustrated, disappointed and depressed. The only way out of this seems to be to become enlightened.
So my question is: How can I become enlightened? What is the best way?

Answer: Humans put most of their energy into reaching goals. That's not a bad thing by itself, but the critical question is where the goals are coming from? The goals do not come from within the individual, but from society outside. Most goals are part of the common mindset and serve in the first place to keep people occupied and dependent. These goals give a feeling of sense and meaning to ones life with the promise of finding satisfaction and happiness. People therefore go from one goal to the next and they are not aware of the fact that they are just turning around themselves. And so after many years of struggling, finding  themselves at the same point where they have started, realizing that all those years they were walking in circles.

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Fo: Asking an alien is a great opportunity to find answers for questions, that with our limitations, due to our so strongly established mindset and the resulting closeness, we can't find. The problem seems to be, that we are that much stuck in our self-image and all those concepts, that we are not even capable to ask the right questions. So my question would be: What are the right questions to ask, that are NOT coming out of my blindness and self-defense?

Answer: My answer is that you first need to go into a state of being that is beyond your limited identification with what you believe you are and that is manifested in your 'personality'. This for example you can do when you practice meditation, - then the 'right' questions will show up.

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Hu: My question is: I have experienced for many years now, that when I want to share something that through my personal learning and growing process I can understand as an essential truth, but that is not part of the established mindset of this society, then nobody will listen to me. Even when people are in need and the information would help them to get out of their trouble, still they reject any information that is not part of their already established mindset. Or people accept only that part what fits their knowledge and therefore misunderstand the information that was given.

Experiencing this again and again, I came to the conclusion that it is better to not share, also to avoid the often angry defense reactions I got. But not to say anything also doesn't feel right. I can see that proper information is desperately needed, as there is so much fake information given, coming out of to money and power interests.

So my question is: How can I give the right information to people in need to help them help themselves? And how can I give this information without causing defense reactions coming out of resistance?

Answer: If there are defense reactions, then there is nothing you can do. It shows that the person is not ready. You can't offer the needed information, even though you know it would help them. You can only offer your understanding and your sympathy and then wait for this person to ask you something. When asked you can carefully give some information, but only as much as this person is able to receive and digest.

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Me: Dear alien, can you make us all conscious please?
I am of the opinion that the human species, including myself of course, are unfortunately a completely unconscious species that now can only damage themselves and their surroundings. The only hope is for mass awareness so all will be better soon. I hope the alien knows from experience with his kind how to achieve this and can give us advise or even better just make it happen!

Answer: Dear Me, I can understand you very well and you are touching my heart. I tell you that I am here to help you and every body who is asking for it. Yes, I can show you how to achieve to become aware even though it depends only on you and you will need to do all the work by yourself, but I can take care of you giving you advice how to do this in the most effective and creative way, so that it also can be joyful. Continue asking questions, I will be here to assist you, so that you soon will be able to answer all your questions by looking into yourself and not depending on any body...

* * * Falco: I don't think the aliens will come to save us when the Earth will be uninhabitable and bring us to their place. Yes, maybe a few of us to keep them as pets... Seriously: We have caused that our planet will soon kill us because we have unbalanced all life. If aliens have a higher awareness then probably they want to help. At least it seems like it if they offer to answer our questions. We are pretty stupid, but maybe not that stupid to reject this opportunity.

So I ask: Is there still the possibility to save this planet and also humanity? How could this be possible? What can I do as a single creature to do my part in this?

Answer: Yes, there is still the possibility to bring the course of humanity into the right direction: By becoming aware of ones dependencies on an established mindset that forces one to follow goals that are not serving ones growing. You are responsible for yourself and if you do what you can, then that's the best. You can do more than you are aware of it now. Be critical about what now seems to be part of yourself, but that is just adapted as part of the given mindset. Become yourself, find out what you really are...

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Big E: If aliens exist they are just as scared of us as we are of them.
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Answer: We are not afraid of you, even though we know how dangerous you can be when defending yourself, not wanting any changes in that what you believe you are. We will not expose ourselves to you, because you will use us for your dubious goals and reject all what we are able to give freely to you. With your fear you are protecting yourself, closing yourself and keeping yourself in your stuck condition.

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Monika: Wie machst Du dem anderen begreiflich, dass er selbst das Problem ist. Man erfährt es hier nur durch innere Eingebung, es ist nicht lehrbar durch Schriften, daher nicht für jeden zugänglich und somit sind ständig Reibereien, Konflikte, Kriege bei uns.

Answer: This indeed is the most difficult and there is hardly anything one can do to make some one understand that he or she is the problem and not the surrounding or others. You can't do much more except that you just be what you are and then out of this you present your energy. This doesn't need words or specific actions, and for sure 'books' can't give it, but you will transmit something with your energy that is beyond words and this will have a transforming influence on others.

* * * Schlaftrunk: Diente euch auch die Natur als Vorlage für die Gewissheit und das Mitgefühl?

Answer: The feeling for others comes from the connection with all beings and our relating to whatever shows up. Then we can respond and if the situation and condition allows it then we can act.
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* * * Jerrick: If you are truly not afraid of us. And you don't want to show yourself to us because we're too afraid to accept your true goals to us. Then, why don't you show yourself to those who truly want to help your cause? I mean if you really do exist I would really love to help you "study" us. And if you do call yourself a "species", what are you called?
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Answer: Your question doesn't show a personal concern. I respond because I see it as coming out of shyness but you are wanting to make a first contact. I show myself in what I'm expressing and this is enough for the moment. I have no 'goals' to do something with humans, it is up to you what you are capable and willing to receive. You want to help my 'cause'? Then ask questions so that I can give an essential answer. I don't need your help to 'study' you. Observing you in your behavior and your actions is enough and your questions will also 'help' me.
You are used to give every thing a 'name' and then you believe you know what it is. This is part of how your mindset functions and that in the first place limits you to go beyond. We have no need to call ourselves names and you are right: I don't feel comfortable to call you 'humans'. I see you as *beings* and that at this moment you are stuck in your established mindset, that makes you to slaves of the established system. Your inbuilt urge to get out of this, causes most of the problems you are confronting in daily life - - - with yourself, because you are more than this!

Jerrick: I like your answer, but honestly, what does observing us affect you? We obviously need help on in this world. Most of us can't do a thing about because we are either to afraid to do anything about it, or we go way to far... If we're still evolving beings, then what can we do to not end ourselves? Oh, random question. When we let's say do see you, like UFOs or whatever you want to call them, is it accidental that we see you? Or are you letting us know that your here, just not ready to actually show us your purpose here... If you are actually like a real alien or... ya just. I wish could speak to you, like an actually discussion. Not just random question we can ask on here.

Answer: You didn't get it when I clearly expressed that you can ask me a personal question that is important for you, what means: For your personal development. I am not going to answer 'random questions'.
I can help you by giving some hints so that you can help yourself, but that's all, the work you have to do yourself. Sorry, but a personal contact like in a discussion is not possible, although I can feel with you and understand your need, but now you will need to concentrate on an essential question. It depends on you and isn't this quite some more than 'nothing at all'?

* * * Sesil: My whole childhood my parents have insisted that there is a God whom I must trust and believe in or I'm dammed to hell. Is this true for you? Can aliens go to hell and burn forever when they die? Or do you believe in something else? Sorry for the many questions but I'm finding it hard to progress in my life because of the religion I was born into.

Answer: When you were born, automatically you were introduced into the belief system of your society. The game started when you were told that 'Father Christmas' brought the presents. How did you deal with it when you found out that this is just made up for children? Then it continued telling you that there is a 'God', a 'hell' and more like this. As a child you were happy with your belief about Father Christmas, - until you changed it against other beliefs. Now as you have been growing up a bit more, some doubts are showing up and so also some questions. You are asking me, to  be able to compare and to find confirmation for your still existing beliefs or the opposite of them. I must disappoint you, because we don't have any beliefs. We use our emotions and our mental capacity in a different way. More like a tool and not being  identified with them to get ones feeling of existence out of them.

All those established belief systems of humans are giving people a kind of frame, but at the same time these are a trap holding the 'believer' in dependency and in a stuck state. You are all suffering from it even though you have found all kind of tricks to avoid the worst. I am here to show you some ways to get out of your self created straitjacket, but you need to ask for it...

You can keep your religion, but to 'progress' you will need to go beyond the 'belief' and realize the truth that is behind the simple traditional belief and that you can do by taking self responsibility and finding out about the real meaning - or you take the shortcut and find the truth within yourself, searching for it and getting to know about yourself. You did a good start by asking this question. Continue!

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Anonymous: Dear Alien, is happiness known in your world and if so, - what is happiness to you?

Answer: It is pretty much the same as here, with the difference that for us it doesn't depend on the fulfillment of wishes and dreams, that with humans is mostly the result of manipulation from the established mindset in your society. For us happiness comes out of the moment and that is by being conscious about being alive and relating and responding out of this to what shows up in this given moment. This doesn't depend on a certain kind of outside condition, situations and happenings that is 'wanted'. So we don't need to force anything to create desired conditions to be 'happy', like humans trying to do this and so constantly going from one goal to the next, mostly disappointed and being under stress. To resolve this dilemma, you will need to be more critical about what you are doing to 'reach happiness' and find out about your personal background. That will cause more questions...
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Anonymous: Are we really going in 2012  to experience big changes in consciousness as predicted by different sources?
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Answer: I suggest that you better take care of the necessary changes that you urgently need right now, that's much more important than worrying about something that might happen or not in the future. You humans are always finding something to keep yourself busy and worried. That's not a good way to grow, what includes getting rid of attitudes and habits that don't serve you at all! So better ask a question that helps you to let these 'big changes' happen within yourself!

* * * Sam: Dear Alien, is everything that happens in life predetermined? Do I decide or influence through my choices and actions the events in and direction of my life? Or does everything in life happen the way it is supposed to happen, regardless of my actions?

Answer: Humans are really funny. You are using the most ridiculous beliefs not to be responsible for your actions! When every thing is and happens the way it is supposed to be, then you can stay in dependency of those people who tell you what to do, without the need to relate and respond to what shows up and might need to be done. Of course your choices and actions mark and influence the direction of your life! That means you are responsible and to be able to do the best, you will first need to get out of dependencies of your old beliefs like that life is 'predetermined'. -
You even have an exciting movie about it! With your hero Arnold Schwarzenegger "The Predeterminator"! (I haven't seen it.)

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